One evening about a year ago a friend of mine's older brother (I'll call him Jim) confessed to me that he had a few male/male experiences in his past.
He had been the small town school's favorite jock in high school. He moved to a much larger city to go to college on a scholarship and was really out of his element.
Although he was a jock, with a great body (still has a great body), he wasn't handsome and was pretty shy. So at college he wasn't dating much and was pretty lonely.
One day early in his first year he was the last in the locker room, and since he shared a dorm room with three other guys, he hadn't been able to get much relief, so since he was alone decided to rub one out in the shower.
He said he was really getting going and heard a noise and looked up and saw the team manager (or whatever you call them) standing outside the shower with an arm load of towels looking at him. He said the guy nodded toward his hard unit, stepped into the shower, got on his knees, took his still throbbing member in his mouth and went to town.
He said he couldn't believe how good it felt, and that it couldn't of lasted for more that a minute and a half, since he was so close when he'd been caught. He said the kid, just stood up, smiled and left.
Jim said he made certain not to be the last one in the shower for the next week or so, but that when he would run into the team manager, he never let on that anything had happened, and that made him feel better.
So one afternoon he decided to wait and see if it would happen again. Jim said that he had dated a few girls in high school and had only been able to get that far with two of them, but it was nothing like what he felt when the guy did it.
Sure enough, after everyone was gone the team manager appeared outside the shower. He nodded toward Jim's crotch and Jim shook his head yes. The guy came in the shower and went at it again. Jim said this time it was a lot better and he lasted a lot longer, but still felt "really" guilty when it was over. So it was about a week later before he tried again, and again the team manager blew him.
This time he said he didn't just stand there and take it, he grabbed the guy's head and took charge. He said that was even better, and he like it when he could make the guy kind of choke on it (I know that feeling!).
Jim said that it got to be a regular thing, that if he wanted some head that he'd just wait the other guys out, work out longer, run some extra laps and the team manager would be there ready to service him.
Jim said it was the only pleasure that he had the entire first semmster in college. Sometimes he'd worry that he would turn gay or something, but then he knew that he would prefer to be with a girl and in a day or so, he'd wait for the other guys to leave and get head again.
Then one day after practice, he over heard some of the other jocks laughing and as he walked up they were talking about the team manager, and one of the guys warned him that he needed to be careful, that, the little queer would make a pass at him if he found him in the showers by himself, because it happened to him the day before.
Jim said that scared him and didn't want anyone to find out, so he never did it again.
Thursday, August 6, 2009
Encouraged by his wife...
This is a personal experience I had with a straight guy...
I met Dan about two years ago. Dan had been married for 10 or 12 years. Dan is a good looking man of 36, about 5'10", say 175 lbs, in decent shape, nice chest, tight stomach, decent arms, great butt, well hung and seems to be a great lover. However Dan's wife always wanted to be with a black man. So he agreed but was only allowed to watch.
I don't know if he had always wanted to do something with a guy, and watching a black man with a huge penis take his wife was a turn on or what, but he agreed and allowed it and watched his wife have sex with this black guy several times.
The third or the forth time the guy was there, his wife told him to perform oral sex on the black man. Dan refused, but she pushed him again, he said he didn't want to but she kept insisting and the black guy being much larger than him finally just shoved him down on the floor and the two of them more or less forced him.
I got the idea that he had probably always wanted to do it, and at least on some level enjoyed it. So he said, it became part of the deal that when his wife had her black lover over, they would make him watch them make out and she would give head and then he had to get on his knees and give head.
Then his wife decided that he should let the black guy take him anally. Dan was totally against this, but he said that after the sessions when he gave the black guy head, later his wife would have fantastic sex with him. So (I assume) he was getting to live out some gay fantasies, and then being rewarded with stellar sex with his wife.
So after a lot of encouraging from the male and demands from his wife he decided to try it. He said, it kind of turned him on, but that the black guy was huge and it hurt like hell. So after a couple of tries his wife bought him some dildoes and in the next sessions after he gave head to the black guy, he had to use larger and larger dildoes on himself as they watched him while they were having sex.
Still he couldn't take the black man's huge member, so she told him that he needed to go out and learn to bottom. That he should find someone who was fairly well hung and bottom for him until he got used to it.
That was where I came in...LOL!
Before we met, we had agreed that when he came to the house he could have two drinks, then he would be forced to give me head and then put into position to be "deflowered" so to speak.
Well like I said, Dan is a good looking man with a great body, and having a "straight guy" come and service me and give himself up to anal sex pretty much at his wife's command was a "huge" turn on. His only requests were that he be blindfolded and that I take it easy. I don't mind telling you that in my twisted little mind the blindfold was "another" huge turn on.
Dan arrived and we sat on the patio while he had his two beers and smoked like a fiend, it was obvious that he was "really" nervous, but you could also tell that he was determined to finish the deed. I only wish I could of video taped it, (sitting there kind of intereviewing him and having him tell me the story of how this all came about, as if it happened to everyone, was also pretty hot) he did allow me to take pictures as long as he was blindfolded, but of course I promised never to show them to anyone else. However later he did have me send them to his wife!
After two beers and four cigarettes Dan followed me to the bedroom, stripped as he was ordered, was blindfolded. He got down on his knees and treated me to some pretty damn good oral sex. I guess with him practicing on his hugely hung black friend, I wasn't a big challenge.
After about ten minutes of some pretty good head, I told Dan to get up, I helped him get into position on the bed, on his knees with head, shoulders and chest on the bed. I got him lubed and ready the best that I could, and slowly penetrated him.
Dan was grunting, groaning and sweating. But it really didn't take long until the grunts were sounding like enjoyment. I reached around to check him and he was totally hard!
We had sex like that for a while, until I was certain that he was really enjoying it, and then I had him turn over and hold his legs in the air. Like I said he was totally hard and I entered him again. This was "way" too hot and it didn't take either of us long, until we both shot!
Dan was pretty quiet through the entire thing. But he laid there panting and sweating for a long time. After I took the blindfold off, we went out to the patio so he could smoke again, and I got him another beer.
We talked for a while and he told me that he was really surprised at how much he had enjoyed it and asked if he could come back again. I tried not to drool as I agreed.
Dan came to visit once or twice a week for almost three months. We talked a little about his situation, but for the most part he "really" just wanted to have sex blindfolded. He never did tell me what that was about, but when I didn't see him anymore, and his profile disappeared from the site we had met on, on the internet, I assumed that he had finally been able to take the black guy.
There was one more interesting thing...about the third time Dan came over, he started kissing me during sex, I found this really surprising from a "straight guy"!
I'm pretty sure that the nights he was with me, his wife was with the black guy, so I assume he wanted to end things with me, so he could be in on the sex his wife was having.
I met Dan about two years ago. Dan had been married for 10 or 12 years. Dan is a good looking man of 36, about 5'10", say 175 lbs, in decent shape, nice chest, tight stomach, decent arms, great butt, well hung and seems to be a great lover. However Dan's wife always wanted to be with a black man. So he agreed but was only allowed to watch.
I don't know if he had always wanted to do something with a guy, and watching a black man with a huge penis take his wife was a turn on or what, but he agreed and allowed it and watched his wife have sex with this black guy several times.
The third or the forth time the guy was there, his wife told him to perform oral sex on the black man. Dan refused, but she pushed him again, he said he didn't want to but she kept insisting and the black guy being much larger than him finally just shoved him down on the floor and the two of them more or less forced him.
I got the idea that he had probably always wanted to do it, and at least on some level enjoyed it. So he said, it became part of the deal that when his wife had her black lover over, they would make him watch them make out and she would give head and then he had to get on his knees and give head.
Then his wife decided that he should let the black guy take him anally. Dan was totally against this, but he said that after the sessions when he gave the black guy head, later his wife would have fantastic sex with him. So (I assume) he was getting to live out some gay fantasies, and then being rewarded with stellar sex with his wife.
So after a lot of encouraging from the male and demands from his wife he decided to try it. He said, it kind of turned him on, but that the black guy was huge and it hurt like hell. So after a couple of tries his wife bought him some dildoes and in the next sessions after he gave head to the black guy, he had to use larger and larger dildoes on himself as they watched him while they were having sex.
Still he couldn't take the black man's huge member, so she told him that he needed to go out and learn to bottom. That he should find someone who was fairly well hung and bottom for him until he got used to it.
That was where I came in...LOL!
Before we met, we had agreed that when he came to the house he could have two drinks, then he would be forced to give me head and then put into position to be "deflowered" so to speak.
Well like I said, Dan is a good looking man with a great body, and having a "straight guy" come and service me and give himself up to anal sex pretty much at his wife's command was a "huge" turn on. His only requests were that he be blindfolded and that I take it easy. I don't mind telling you that in my twisted little mind the blindfold was "another" huge turn on.
Dan arrived and we sat on the patio while he had his two beers and smoked like a fiend, it was obvious that he was "really" nervous, but you could also tell that he was determined to finish the deed. I only wish I could of video taped it, (sitting there kind of intereviewing him and having him tell me the story of how this all came about, as if it happened to everyone, was also pretty hot) he did allow me to take pictures as long as he was blindfolded, but of course I promised never to show them to anyone else. However later he did have me send them to his wife!
After two beers and four cigarettes Dan followed me to the bedroom, stripped as he was ordered, was blindfolded. He got down on his knees and treated me to some pretty damn good oral sex. I guess with him practicing on his hugely hung black friend, I wasn't a big challenge.
After about ten minutes of some pretty good head, I told Dan to get up, I helped him get into position on the bed, on his knees with head, shoulders and chest on the bed. I got him lubed and ready the best that I could, and slowly penetrated him.
Dan was grunting, groaning and sweating. But it really didn't take long until the grunts were sounding like enjoyment. I reached around to check him and he was totally hard!
We had sex like that for a while, until I was certain that he was really enjoying it, and then I had him turn over and hold his legs in the air. Like I said he was totally hard and I entered him again. This was "way" too hot and it didn't take either of us long, until we both shot!
Dan was pretty quiet through the entire thing. But he laid there panting and sweating for a long time. After I took the blindfold off, we went out to the patio so he could smoke again, and I got him another beer.
We talked for a while and he told me that he was really surprised at how much he had enjoyed it and asked if he could come back again. I tried not to drool as I agreed.
Dan came to visit once or twice a week for almost three months. We talked a little about his situation, but for the most part he "really" just wanted to have sex blindfolded. He never did tell me what that was about, but when I didn't see him anymore, and his profile disappeared from the site we had met on, on the internet, I assumed that he had finally been able to take the black guy.
There was one more interesting thing...about the third time Dan came over, he started kissing me during sex, I found this really surprising from a "straight guy"!
I'm pretty sure that the nights he was with me, his wife was with the black guy, so I assume he wanted to end things with me, so he could be in on the sex his wife was having.
Is it true?
It's a bad joke, but a lot of gay men pretty much agree with the saying: "What's the difference between a gay guy and a straight guy? About a six pack!"
I know that a lot of guy men think this is funny and a lot of straight guys get pissed off, but there is some truth to the matter. There are a lot of horny men out there who after the effects of some alcohol hit, they become a lot more relaxed about who they are willing to have sex with. Come on straight/gay/bi and also male/female, many of us woke up in the morning either next to someone that we wish we hadn't slept with. Or later remembered that we had slept with someone who we wish we hadn't be even drunk or under the influence had somehow gotten outselves, or them out of there and didn't have to look at them in the morning.
It's pretty much a known fact that if you put a bunch of males in a long term or even short term situation where there are no females around, that a certain percentage of them are going to try something with each other. Think about prison (yuk), military isolation situations, all boys schools and colleges...
I've had serveral of my own experiences when I was trying to convince myself that having sex with men was just a phase, and I've had several experiences with men who were trying to be straight and just had to stick there toe in the waters of the "big gay lake" so to speak.
There are many, many married men who play around with other guys. Some of them are totally turned off by effeminent gay men, and are only interested in other "straight" appearing and acting men. To me, if there is a "gayer" group they are "it", because they are not turned on by anyone reminding them remotely of a female.
If for a second you don't think that there is a huge portion of the gay community that don't look at having sex with a married man, or a "straight guy" as a special conquest, just go to one of the gay posting places and see all the posts from gay men looking to have sex, even just explicitly oral sex with a "straight guy", a married man, or at the very least someone bi. It's like a trophy... Also look at the popularity of all of the "Gay for Pay" sites on the internet!
I've talked with several of the "straight guys" that I've had sex with and I'm going to relate some of their stories. I'm also asking for stories from "straight guys" and married men about escapes and experiences that they have had...I would love to post them on here.
All civil comments are welcome, and your stories can be sent to my eamil:
gtmwebsites@gmail.com
I promise to keep your email address private!
I know that a lot of guy men think this is funny and a lot of straight guys get pissed off, but there is some truth to the matter. There are a lot of horny men out there who after the effects of some alcohol hit, they become a lot more relaxed about who they are willing to have sex with. Come on straight/gay/bi and also male/female, many of us woke up in the morning either next to someone that we wish we hadn't slept with. Or later remembered that we had slept with someone who we wish we hadn't be even drunk or under the influence had somehow gotten outselves, or them out of there and didn't have to look at them in the morning.
It's pretty much a known fact that if you put a bunch of males in a long term or even short term situation where there are no females around, that a certain percentage of them are going to try something with each other. Think about prison (yuk), military isolation situations, all boys schools and colleges...
I've had serveral of my own experiences when I was trying to convince myself that having sex with men was just a phase, and I've had several experiences with men who were trying to be straight and just had to stick there toe in the waters of the "big gay lake" so to speak.
There are many, many married men who play around with other guys. Some of them are totally turned off by effeminent gay men, and are only interested in other "straight" appearing and acting men. To me, if there is a "gayer" group they are "it", because they are not turned on by anyone reminding them remotely of a female.
If for a second you don't think that there is a huge portion of the gay community that don't look at having sex with a married man, or a "straight guy" as a special conquest, just go to one of the gay posting places and see all the posts from gay men looking to have sex, even just explicitly oral sex with a "straight guy", a married man, or at the very least someone bi. It's like a trophy... Also look at the popularity of all of the "Gay for Pay" sites on the internet!
I've talked with several of the "straight guys" that I've had sex with and I'm going to relate some of their stories. I'm also asking for stories from "straight guys" and married men about escapes and experiences that they have had...I would love to post them on here.
All civil comments are welcome, and your stories can be sent to my eamil:
gtmwebsites@gmail.com
I promise to keep your email address private!
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